Journal 5 – Forbes Magazine

“Can You Hear Me Now?” by Sherry Terkle

“Can You Hear Me Now” is an article which is a play on words that basically asks if we are listening. In it, the author discusses a number of issues pivoting around web technologies, BlackBerry, animations, among others. And we are becoming so immersed with these technologies that we are not aware of potential consequences it may have for future generations.

The author touches on a number of vexing philosophical issues. The realm of the web has replaced many of our face-to-face social interactions to short, written messages via “texting” or emails. I believe this could have dire consequences affecting social skills, specifically, conflict resolution and tolerance for others. The author raises many deep concerns and makes me wonder if the public is aware of how it is slowly taking over our lives. It’s starting to remind me of something from a “sci-fi” movie.

I agree with the author’s premise that the use of these new gadgets is getting in the way of the very thing it is supposed to encourage: more time. Instead of making life simpler, it is tethering us to the very things we are trying to get a break from. Here is a quote from the Internet I found intriguing as it relates to the author’s point:
“BlackBerry 8800 series smartphones ensures that you stay connected to work, life and everything in between. Catch up with family using email, phone or instant messaging,”
I also agree that teens, especially, are becoming so dependant on their BlackBerries and I-pods they can’t stop using them, even in the classrooms. Not only are these gadgets distractions to teachers and other students, they become such an obsession that the student-user is unable to focus in class.

I had several reflections while I read the author’s article. The scariest for me was the realization of how withdrawn from social contact some people are becoming. By creating virtual realities they also create alter egos where they can be anything they want to be. I think we all need a place or a sanctuary to escape and recharge our batteries. But, when things get out of balance, these people are not able to separate fantasy from reality, which creates chances for trouble. Some teens spend so much time playing video games that they actually think they can do anything without having consequences.

1. Why do I think multi-user domains are not healthy?
A reality where you are always the “winner” and everything goes your way creates a spoiled child and a “ME-based” society. I may be assuming the pessimistic side of the issue, but Americans have been criticized by other cultures for being a “me-centered” society. I believe technologies which permit people to escape into themselves will only encourage that tendency towards “Me” mentality. There is nothing wrong with using our imagination, but to create an ultra ego to represent who we are is akin to a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality. It gives people practice at not being responsible for lives they ruin or the people they hurt. Also, it creates action junkies. Users are not satisfied with real-life events but, rather, they must create drama to feel fulfilled. A healthy imagination is great, but it must be balanced by reality.
2. What can be done to counter act this craze toward social alienation?
In schools and the classroom, teachers can counter-balance this trend by involving students in more social interacting. One of the most valuable skills to teach is conflict resolution. To be truly happy, one must learn these skills early in life and learn to maintain good, healthy relationships. Being involved with them as a teacher and setting a good example are two things a teacher can and should do. I believe the classroom should not be taken over by technology. I may be a little old fashioned, but social skills are taught through interactions with one another, not with life-less computers.